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		<title>By: tam</title>
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		<dc:creator>tam</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sun, 19 Oct 2008 05:19:24 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>carolyn - praying for you.

brad - since the beginning of the year we have been on a pretty good budget. it has transformed our lives. we dont use credit, so everything is paid for in cash. so...if we dont have it, we dont get it. that alone helps with compulsive buying. its tight. but we can never say that God has not provided for us, for our needs.

since our budget began, we found that we could in fact give to compassion. we sponsor a sweet little boy with eyes that can melt the hardest of hearts.

tams last blog post..&lt;a href=&quot;http://kassota.wordpress.com/2008/10/18/weekend-discussion/&quot; rel=&quot;nofollow&quot;&gt;weekend discussion&lt;/a&gt;</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>carolyn &#8211; praying for you.</p>
<p>brad &#8211; since the beginning of the year we have been on a pretty good budget. it has transformed our lives. we dont use credit, so everything is paid for in cash. so&#8230;if we dont have it, we dont get it. that alone helps with compulsive buying. its tight. but we can never say that God has not provided for us, for our needs.</p>
<p>since our budget began, we found that we could in fact give to compassion. we sponsor a sweet little boy with eyes that can melt the hardest of hearts.</p>
<p>tams last blog post..<a href="http://kassota.wordpress.com/2008/10/18/weekend-discussion/" rel="nofollow">weekend discussion</a></p>
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		<title>By: carolyn</title>
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		<dc:creator>carolyn</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sat, 18 Oct 2008 02:48:02 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>{sheesh} - sorry. i knew it was long. but i didn&#039;t think it was THAT long.  

:)

carolyns last blog post..&lt;a href=&quot;http://feeds.feedburner.com/~r/Foolishnotionsnet/~3/417911854/683&quot; rel=&quot;nofollow&quot;&gt;‘to know’ changes nothing… ‘to act’ changes everything&lt;/a&gt;</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>{sheesh} &#8211; sorry. i knew it was long. but i didn&#8217;t think it was THAT long.  </p>
<p> <img src='http://www.bradruggles.com/wp-includes/images/smilies/icon_smile.gif' alt=':)' class='wp-smiley' /> </p>
<p>carolyns last blog post..<a href="http://feeds.feedburner.com/~r/Foolishnotionsnet/~3/417911854/683" rel="nofollow">‘to know’ changes nothing… ‘to act’ changes everything</a></p>
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		<title>By: carolyn</title>
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		<dc:creator>carolyn</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sat, 18 Oct 2008 02:45:59 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>we are bracing for a layoff at the end of the month.  i have been amazed as we have taken a good hard look at our finances, the numerous creative budgeting techniques we have overlooked.  we have gone for so long feeling we have been living super close to the bone.  we are finding sizable cuts that still leave us quite comfortable by global standards.

though not fun, i am thankful for difficult times that teach us valuable lessons like these. i fully anticipate having to cut our spending even more - - to a standard that may no longer be &quot;comfortable&quot; (laughable, huh? we americans are so spoiled). but the beauty of living for god is the supernatural peace and trust in his provision that comes in the midst of it all.  we still tithe and will continue to do so and we will be as generous as we can beyond the tithe.  because god has proved himself faithful time and again. you just can&#039;t out give god. btw, you have to budget your generosity - can&#039;t just write a check for $50 when your bank account is at $10 and expect god to just zap it in there.  um, it doesn&#039;t work that way.  i know... that was a little of a tangent.  but that little piece of information seems to be news to more than a few people.  generosity is not supernatural - it&#039;s very calculated. 

the coming months will be hard no doubt, but i look forward to the growth that always comes from being stretched beyond our perceived limitations. someday my husband will have a new and improved job and we will have a new and improved standard for money management which will allow us to be more generous than we ever felt we could be before.

the voluntary pay cut thing is brilliant.  wish we had tried it before it all became so involuntary.

wow, i obviously haven&#039;t blogged in a bit.  sorry, that was a kinda long.  but great post, brad.  thanks!

p.s. dave ramsey is the deal.  and there are few things more life changing than breaking free from debt.  we&#039;ve done it twice now.  anyone here struggling with it... HANG IN THERE AND STICK TO IT and keep tithing. it will be SO worth it.

carolyns last blog post..&lt;a href=&quot;http://feeds.feedburner.com/~r/Foolishnotionsnet/~3/417911854/683&quot; rel=&quot;nofollow&quot;&gt;‘to know’ changes nothing… ‘to act’ changes everything&lt;/a&gt;</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>we are bracing for a layoff at the end of the month.  i have been amazed as we have taken a good hard look at our finances, the numerous creative budgeting techniques we have overlooked.  we have gone for so long feeling we have been living super close to the bone.  we are finding sizable cuts that still leave us quite comfortable by global standards.</p>
<p>though not fun, i am thankful for difficult times that teach us valuable lessons like these. i fully anticipate having to cut our spending even more &#8211; - to a standard that may no longer be &#8220;comfortable&#8221; (laughable, huh? we americans are so spoiled). but the beauty of living for god is the supernatural peace and trust in his provision that comes in the midst of it all.  we still tithe and will continue to do so and we will be as generous as we can beyond the tithe.  because god has proved himself faithful time and again. you just can&#8217;t out give god. btw, you have to budget your generosity &#8211; can&#8217;t just write a check for $50 when your bank account is at $10 and expect god to just zap it in there.  um, it doesn&#8217;t work that way.  i know&#8230; that was a little of a tangent.  but that little piece of information seems to be news to more than a few people.  generosity is not supernatural &#8211; it&#8217;s very calculated. </p>
<p>the coming months will be hard no doubt, but i look forward to the growth that always comes from being stretched beyond our perceived limitations. someday my husband will have a new and improved job and we will have a new and improved standard for money management which will allow us to be more generous than we ever felt we could be before.</p>
<p>the voluntary pay cut thing is brilliant.  wish we had tried it before it all became so involuntary.</p>
<p>wow, i obviously haven&#8217;t blogged in a bit.  sorry, that was a kinda long.  but great post, brad.  thanks!</p>
<p>p.s. dave ramsey is the deal.  and there are few things more life changing than breaking free from debt.  we&#8217;ve done it twice now.  anyone here struggling with it&#8230; HANG IN THERE AND STICK TO IT and keep tithing. it will be SO worth it.</p>
<p>carolyns last blog post..<a href="http://feeds.feedburner.com/~r/Foolishnotionsnet/~3/417911854/683" rel="nofollow">‘to know’ changes nothing… ‘to act’ changes everything</a></p>
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		<title>By: Sarah W</title>
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		<dc:creator>Sarah W</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 17 Oct 2008 20:17:35 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Great post!I find that when you release the control of your funds over to the Lord then it&#039;s so much easier to give it away and bless others.  As missionaries we also support other missionaries because it&#039;s important to us to give it back and we always get back in return.  If everyone followed these three steps, I think the world would be a happier place......I know a few missionaries that could take some money off of people&#039;s hands. :)

Sarah Ws last blog post..&lt;a href=&quot;http://www.xanga.com/MissionaryMommy/678595744/a-joyful-heart.html&quot; rel=&quot;nofollow&quot;&gt;A joyful heart....&lt;/a&gt;</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Great post!I find that when you release the control of your funds over to the Lord then it&#8217;s so much easier to give it away and bless others.  As missionaries we also support other missionaries because it&#8217;s important to us to give it back and we always get back in return.  If everyone followed these three steps, I think the world would be a happier place&#8230;&#8230;I know a few missionaries that could take some money off of people&#8217;s hands. <img src='http://www.bradruggles.com/wp-includes/images/smilies/icon_smile.gif' alt=':)' class='wp-smiley' /> </p>
<p>Sarah Ws last blog post..<a href="http://www.xanga.com/MissionaryMommy/678595744/a-joyful-heart.html" rel="nofollow">A joyful heart&#8230;.</a></p>
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		<title>By: Kristen</title>
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		<dc:creator>Kristen</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 17 Oct 2008 19:48:16 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Hello from West Lafayette, IN!

Just a quick message to tell you that i love your blog. awesome stuff.

Kristens last blog post..&lt;a href=&quot;http://kristiseriously.wordpress.com/2008/10/08/things-that-happened-today/&quot; rel=&quot;nofollow&quot;&gt;Things that happened today&lt;/a&gt;</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Hello from West Lafayette, IN!</p>
<p>Just a quick message to tell you that i love your blog. awesome stuff.</p>
<p>Kristens last blog post..<a href="http://kristiseriously.wordpress.com/2008/10/08/things-that-happened-today/" rel="nofollow">Things that happened today</a></p>
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		<title>By: Brad Ruggles</title>
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		<dc:creator>Brad Ruggles</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 17 Oct 2008 18:30:56 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>&lt;strong&gt;@Mike&lt;/strong&gt; - True, we do have poverty here in America. But the kind of poverty we have here pales in comparison to what people experience in third world countries. We at least have access to clean water, food and shelter. There are well-funded, resourced homeless shelters and missions here in United States that offer food, clothing, and job training (as there should be).

We need and should volunteer at those type of organizations serving the needy in our own country. But to compare the &quot;poverty&quot; we have here in the United States to what children growing up in Rwanda or Hati experience every day...well, there is no comparison. There are different levels of poverty in the world and the poorest of our poor are rich in comparison to many around the world.

That being said, I strongly encourage people to give generously to organizations that are working to eradicate poverty wherever it exists - in our own city or around the world. We should be volunteering at and donating to homeless shelters in our community. Just remember, there are over &lt;a href=&quot;http://rehydrate.org/diarrhoea/index.html&quot; rel=&quot;nofollow&quot;&gt;&lt;B&gt;6,000 people&lt;/B&gt;&lt;/a&gt; (mostly children) who die every day from a lack of clean water and over &lt;a href=&quot;http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Tuberculosis&quot; rel=&quot;nofollow&quot;&gt;&lt;B&gt;5,400&lt;/B&gt;&lt;/a&gt; who die every day from preventable diseases like Tuberculosis (&lt;a href=&quot;http://www.bradruggles.com/2008/02/21/world-clock/&quot; rel=&quot;nofollow&quot;&gt;more facts here&lt;/a&gt;). 

That&#039;s something I just can&#039;t live with.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p><strong>@Mike</strong> &#8211; True, we do have poverty here in America. But the kind of poverty we have here pales in comparison to what people experience in third world countries. We at least have access to clean water, food and shelter. There are well-funded, resourced homeless shelters and missions here in United States that offer food, clothing, and job training (as there should be).</p>
<p>We need and should volunteer at those type of organizations serving the needy in our own country. But to compare the &#8220;poverty&#8221; we have here in the United States to what children growing up in Rwanda or Hati experience every day&#8230;well, there is no comparison. There are different levels of poverty in the world and the poorest of our poor are rich in comparison to many around the world.</p>
<p>That being said, I strongly encourage people to give generously to organizations that are working to eradicate poverty wherever it exists &#8211; in our own city or around the world. We should be volunteering at and donating to homeless shelters in our community. Just remember, there are over <a href="http://rehydrate.org/diarrhoea/index.html" rel="nofollow"><b>6,000 people</b></a> (mostly children) who die every day from a lack of clean water and over <a href="http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Tuberculosis" rel="nofollow"><b>5,400</b></a> who die every day from preventable diseases like Tuberculosis (<a href="http://www.bradruggles.com/2008/02/21/world-clock/" rel="nofollow">more facts here</a>). </p>
<p>That&#8217;s something I just can&#8217;t live with.</p>
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		<title>By: Mike Ellis, Church For Men Florida</title>
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		<dc:creator>Mike Ellis, Church For Men Florida</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 17 Oct 2008 18:04:24 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Okay, I am not going to get invited to any of your Christmast parties with this thot. Why oh Why do we always think about poverty overseas when there are people dying in our own neighborhoods. What about the homeless, the widows, the orphans, etc. in our own communities? Across the street? The church spends way to much time talking about missions to other countries and not enough time talking about what we can all do in our own communities. 

Nuff said.

Mike Ellis, Church For Men Floridas last blog post..&lt;a href=&quot;http://churchformenflorida.blogspot.com/2008/10/why-i-will-never-be-able-to-call-myself.html&quot; rel=&quot;nofollow&quot;&gt;Why I will never be able to call myself a Christian&lt;/a&gt;</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Okay, I am not going to get invited to any of your Christmast parties with this thot. Why oh Why do we always think about poverty overseas when there are people dying in our own neighborhoods. What about the homeless, the widows, the orphans, etc. in our own communities? Across the street? The church spends way to much time talking about missions to other countries and not enough time talking about what we can all do in our own communities. </p>
<p>Nuff said.</p>
<p>Mike Ellis, Church For Men Floridas last blog post..<a href="http://churchformenflorida.blogspot.com/2008/10/why-i-will-never-be-able-to-call-myself.html" rel="nofollow">Why I will never be able to call myself a Christian</a></p>
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		<title>By: Brad Ruggles</title>
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		<dc:creator>Brad Ruggles</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 17 Oct 2008 15:54:40 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>@Travis - You&#039;re right, nothing really new. All kinda common sense stuff. But these days common sense isn&#039;t all that common! 

Too bad we can&#039;t get our government to start adopting some of these common sense principles.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>@Travis &#8211; You&#8217;re right, nothing really new. All kinda common sense stuff. But these days common sense isn&#8217;t all that common! </p>
<p>Too bad we can&#8217;t get our government to start adopting some of these common sense principles.</p>
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		<title>By: Travis Thompson</title>
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		<dc:creator>Travis Thompson</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 17 Oct 2008 15:48:52 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Good stuff Brad . . .

It&#039;s not really anything new, but you put it in a simple concise way - I&#039;ve already forwarded your post to a few friends

Travis Thompsons last blog post..&lt;a href=&quot;http://blueroomworthy.com/2008/10/17/friday-5-2/&quot; rel=&quot;nofollow&quot;&gt;Friday 5&lt;/a&gt;</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Good stuff Brad . . .</p>
<p>It&#8217;s not really anything new, but you put it in a simple concise way &#8211; I&#8217;ve already forwarded your post to a few friends</p>
<p>Travis Thompsons last blog post..<a href="http://blueroomworthy.com/2008/10/17/friday-5-2/" rel="nofollow">Friday 5</a></p>
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		<title>By: Mark LeHew</title>
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		<dc:creator>Mark LeHew</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 17 Oct 2008 15:46:30 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Thanks for some good practical advice Brad.  By the way, sorry I missed the bloggers meet-up at Catalyst.  I ended up working stage security and didn&#039;t get out of there until late.  I&#039;m sure I missed a good time.

Mark LeHews last blog post..&lt;a href=&quot;http://smellmylife.com/2008/10/14/worship-playlist/&quot; rel=&quot;nofollow&quot;&gt;Worship Playlist!&lt;/a&gt;</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Thanks for some good practical advice Brad.  By the way, sorry I missed the bloggers meet-up at Catalyst.  I ended up working stage security and didn&#8217;t get out of there until late.  I&#8217;m sure I missed a good time.</p>
<p>Mark LeHews last blog post..<a href="http://smellmylife.com/2008/10/14/worship-playlist/" rel="nofollow">Worship Playlist!</a></p>
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