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Are You A Rule-Maker? Rule-Keeper? Or Rule-Breaker?

Are You A Rule-Maker? Rule-Keeper? Or Rule-Breaker?
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The Dalai Lama says, Learn the rules so you know how to break them properly. But not all of us are cut out to be rule-breakers.

Some of you are wired to follow the rules down to the letter. You know who you are (and trust me, everyone else does too).

Others like to be the ones making the rules (Calvinball anyone?).

And then there are some of us who…well, let’s face it, we live by the “rules are meant to be broken” motto.

Which one are you? Are you A Rule-Maker, Rule-Keeper, or Rule-Breaker?

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    1 Nick said:

    I break the rules that I don’t agree with :-) Which is the direct opposite of how I was raised and that was to follow the ‘rules’ strictly, no questions asked. (So if you break the rules, does that essentially mean you make the rules too? At least the rules you want to follow?)

    I can already tell with my 6 year old that he is going to be a Type-A stick to the rules kind of guy.



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    2 April said:

    Well, we all know what type I fall under…. (the same type as Chloe)

    It’s weird in Thailand though- everyone lives under the idea that rules aren’t to be taken seriously… maybe just if you’re going to get caught. So what if they’ve just issued an ordinance against J-walking- we’ll still do it! I’ll only follow the speed limit if there’s a policeman nearby. No cheating? Whatever. No one polices it and it’s the best way to pass. It shocks me (again, what type am I?) how ingrained this type of mindset is in Bangkok. You seriously see it in EVERYONE. It’s normal! Makes me let up quite a bit. Much different than the “rule-following” societies of Japan and Korea…



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    3 matt bortmess said:

    I’m a Rule-Follower married to a Rule-Breaker. Makes for intense discussions sometimes!



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    4 Mark Gillim said:

    break em… kings or pawns



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    5 Brook Sarver said:

    Rule-breaker… Line-pusher… Grey-area dweller…

    Can be quite interesting being a missionary with this mindset!



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    6 Becky said:

    Definitely a rule follower… it’s ingrained in me!



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    7 Danny Bixby said:

    I’m a rule questioner.

    Every rule exists for a reason. It was implemented for a purpose by someone who thought it was a good thing to do at one point.

    Some rules need to be abolished, others need to be upheld…because they are stopping worse consequences from taking place.



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    8 Paul Steinbrueck said:

    This is something Chris Brogan and Julien Smith wrote about in chapter 2 of Trust Agents, which we’re discussing over at Christian Web Trends. (Here’s Mary Beth Stockdale’s post on it – http://retwt.me/1e5eA)

    What Brogan and Smith say (and I agree with) is that in every situation you have to learn the rules first, both the written & unwritten rules. Then you figure out which rules can be changed or ignored.



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    9 Jennifer said:

    I don’t like to be told what to do or how to do it… yep. they were made to be broken! Well, the ones I don’t like anyway.



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    10 alece said:

    i’m a rule keeper at heart. but been intentionally breaking some lately to teach myself to lighten up.



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    11 Lynse Leanne said:

    I am a rule keeper. If i know the rule i will try and follow it to a “t”…i have to let myself know that it would be ok to break or bend them.



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    12 Amy said:

    for most of my life i was rule keeper. the older i get though i’m becoming more of a rule breaker.



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    13 Becky said:

    I’m totally a rule-follower too. Must be a Becky thing.



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    14 Dexter said:

    I could say that i am a rule follower



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    15 themisfit said:

    I’m a rule breaker.

    My motto, “it’s easier to ask forgiveness then permission!”



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